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The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge: 27 & 28

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27)   Talk about something that you really, really, really love about yourself.

I really love that I’m so down to earth. That I can be in many different spaces and connect with people regardless. I love many things about myself, but being able to interact with people at all levels I think is an asset. 

28)   Describe a moment when you made a big, bold move. In any area of life: Career, Love, etc.

Career – starting my own business. Very bold, very costly, very time consuming, very stressful. I could be doing something else, but I’m here starting my own business and being me – being bold!

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The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge: 25 & 26

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25)   Describe a moment when you “paid it forward.” What happened and how did it feel?

I was a sunday school teacher for a few years and we had to put on a show. Years before that I was one of the youngest members of our Church Junior Choir and we practiced very hard and won many awards. This situation with the sunday school was different. They hadn’t had training and we got them at all ages from 3-17. We had no idea what we were getting ourselves into. The conductors are my Choir director’s(who passed away several years ago) children. This was not jut nostalgic for me but emotional for them. We practiced very hard and decided to put on a Christmas show. The outpouring response was amazing. Although, we were apprehensive the show turned out great. The kids sonunded amazing! We found out that some of them can actually sing and we gave them solos during the showcase. Although they would complain duirng rehearsal, after the Christmas showcase, they asked for a Spring Showcase! 

26)   Name a song that makes you cry every time you hear it and why

I got to find peace of mind – Lauryn Hill

 

The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge: 21 & 22

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I’ve been slacking on my posts. I’ve been so busy, without internet and I’m now playing catch up…bare with me!

21)   How would you pitch a reality show about yourself? To what network?

Definitely on E or MTV. I’d pitch my family and I! We’re crazy bunch. We’d make great TV, we got some type of up and down going on a weekly basis. We live really close together, like we’re still back home in Vincy. Put us in one house and you’ll have great family time, holes in walls, baby news and much much more!

Nay’s World: Highs and Lows of a Scarborough Family

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22)   What fictional character in a movie, tv show, or book do you identify with and why?

Gabriel Union in Mary Jane. It’s so unreal. I just wish my life does not turn out like that, but it’s definitely headed that way. If you’ve never heard of the show, check out the teaser and clips here, http://www.bet.com/shows/being-mary-jane.html

 

 

 

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The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge: Day 8

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8)      Five things that are most important to you in a future mate

1. Honesty

2. Patience

3. Loyalty

4. Loving 

5. Committed 

The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge: Day 5

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5)      The biggest misconception you think people have about single life

The biggest misconception is that we’re lonely. That we’re ultimately crying and dying for someone to fill the void. How about, we like the down time and freedom to chart our own course…never thought about that huh?! And it doesn’t mean that we’re selfish. Maybe we’re working on being self-FULL! There’s a big difference! 

And then the other misconception is, they think we’re not having sex. Umm, single-life sex is probably one of the best kinds of sex you’ll ever have! Just saying…

Let’s not judge, that single person might actually be content with their bottle of wine, vanilla candles and handy yet steady vibrator or steady yet handy single-life sex partner! 

The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge!: Day 3

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3)      Describe a moment or a day when being single was really awesome

Last year I went back home to St. Vincent and the Grenadines for a couples weeks. I hadn’t traveled for about 2 years because I was in school. I traveled on my own with no cares in the world…one of the best experiences and best trips thus far in my life. I was free, I felt free. I was happy, I was full of joy. I couldn’t wait to see my family and friends and relax and listen to the sounds of my beautiful island. I didn’t check in with anyone, I answered to myself. I met new people, formed new relationships and was feeling unstoppable. Things in my life were aligning and I was completed centered. I experienced that with no man, no boyfriend, and no play thing. 

When I travel it represents my journey through my personal life. I learn more and grow much quicker. I made the mistake once of traveling to see a man. Let me just say this, I learned a lot and saw a lot! Traveling solo with no attachments enables me to grow and become stronger. When I find someone who gives me the room for that process to happen, then I know I’ve find the right one. Don’t get it confused, I’m not saying we’ll break up so I can travel and frolic! I’m saying if we can travel together and I have the room to explore my own personal journey while with him…that’s pretty freakin’ awesome. Then again, isn’t that how we create balance in relationships? Isn’t that how we create successful relationships? 

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